I was induced Saturday morning around 8 a.m. after walking around dilated to a 3 1/2 for two weeks. Once my water broke, we were in business: Lincoln was born at 11:59 a.m. after two pushes (whoa! didn't know that could happen) weighing 8 pounds 4 ounces and stretching to 21 inches.
I forgot to ask for an epidural because I was reading--shocker--and by the time we asked the anesthesiologist was in an emergency C-section. So...we held on through contractions until I was at an 8 1/2. Wesley is the best; there's no way I could have made it through that without him. He held me close and counted with/for me and helped me breathe and prayed with me. I can't actually think about Wesley without getting teary right now, so that's all I'll say.
The epidural allowed me to focus enough for the last little bit and not be so shaky once Lincoln was here (I shook uncontrollably for a bit there, and then again after they took Lincoln to the nursery for clean-up). But all is well with us both.
We came home Monday afternoon. Levi loves Lincoln and kisses his head as much as he can. He also directs me in holding him, nursing him, and taking him out of the crib. I'm glad Levi is concerned about my parenting--and that he's happy with a new brother. Phew!
Lincoln and I went to the doctor today. He weighs a bit over 8 pounds. Wow. As you can tell, this boy is an eater--almost to birth weight at four days! We think he looks more like the Kellers, but every day there is a stronger resemblance between the brothers.
I'm so grateful to be a mom of two beautiful boys, especially since Wesley is their daddy.
Wednesday, January 26, 2011
Saturday, January 22, 2011
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
2011 Holiday Letter
Happy Holidays!
We enjoyed 2010 with the leaps of life changes and daily living. In April, we both graduated from Brigham Young University. Wesley earned his B.S. in chemical engineering and Cassie completed her M.F.A. in creative writing. Levi wore out the sidewalk in his stroller going to and from campus. We attempted a family vacation to Denver, Colorado (in conjunction with a writing conference); we learned a lot—such as, copy your child’s birth certificate, double-check all of your hotel, car, and conference arrangements, and avoid staying in hotels with young children (namely, Levi). We laugh about the many ways 2010 has taught us to embrace sleep deprivation.
After graduation, we moved to Idaho Falls, Idaho. Wesley interned at Idaho National Laboratory working on a project with their biomass energy group. This included a two week trip to the mid-west to study (play with) corn stover bales. He loved INL and continues to do work for them at a distance. Cassie and Levi played, read, and relaxed through the summer. As we expect a new baby, Levi discovered early on the hilarity of watching his mom lose even the idea of food in the toilet. He patted her back and laughed then flushed the toilet for her. It’s hard to feel miserable with that kind of support. Our summer disappeared quickly as we reveled in family time, visited Cassie’s grandparents’ cabin in Wyoming, and prepared to move again.
In August, we moved across the country (at least half-way and south) to Manor, Texas, just outside of Austin. We’re still in shock that we live in a house that doesn’t share walls with other people. It’s weird to not hear your neighbors vacuum or listen to the radio—but we’re adjusting well! Wesley is an official Ph.D.-candidate at the University of Texas at Austin. He is excited about the work he’ll do in conjunction with the Pecan Street Project (see pecanstreetproject.org). Basically, his focus is on energy efficiency in the residential sphere—and that can go in a lot of directions in the three and a half years we have left! Cassie teaches creative writing (nonfiction) for BYU independent study and is grateful to keep a few toes in the writing world.
Our baby is due in three weeks (give him four, although at this point Cassie wouldn’t mind two). As a result, we celebrated the holidays away from family for the first time; to make up for that we invited people over, ate too much, and learned a few new games. We never thought we’d eat Thanksgiving dinner with the air conditioner blasting, but now we have!
Levi dances, runs, and dives everywhere. He loves cars, airplanes, books, lights, and jabbering constantly about them although we cannot understand most of what he says. Every day he directs one of us to a song book, holds it carefully in front of him, then leads us with his hand while singing, “Lalalalala!” He is enthralled by choirs and instruments of all kinds. Wesley already encourages the violin and dreams of having free concert tickets from his son in the future. Other than music, Levi’s favorite hobby is cleaning. He knows which cleaners do what and often corrects Cassie’s toilet scrubbing technique (even though he’s under close surveillance with anything that resembles a potential danger). If we let him, he’d mop the floor six times a day; maybe in the future we will allow that! Levi also loves babies—particularly pictures of himself—so we’re hopeful that the baby will be as darling as he is and therefore warmly welcomed by his big brother.
We’re grateful for our wonderful year of miracles and challenges. Thank you for sharing our lives.
Wesley, Cassie, Levi, and New Baby Cole
Favorite Books of the Year:
Yearning for the Living God by F. Enzio Busche, edited by Tracie Lamb
The Rise and Fall of the Third Reich by William Shirer
The Meadow by James Galvin
Poetry in Person edited by Alexander Neubauer
Christmas review
We had a wonderful, warm Christmas. Levi embraced cars, trains, tractors and books with delight--although he decided unwrapping was a bit cumbersome. Those boxes were to be arranged neatly under the tree, didn't we know?
We took some videos, but they didn't really turn out. Sorry.
Helping with peanut butter cups.
Tractors!
We took some videos, but they didn't really turn out. Sorry.
A small publication
Not that this is huge, but fun.
http://fertilesource.com/
Funny that this comes out just as we're beginning labor for our second baby.
http://fertilesource.com/
Funny that this comes out just as we're beginning labor for our second baby.
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